As a mom, there are days when the last thing I want to do is put on jewelry. It’s not because I don’t love it — far from it. I’m a jewelry designer, after all! Jewelry has been an integral part of my life and my work, but motherhood often brings a new kind of busy. Between running my business, caring for my kids, and managing everything else life throws my way, there are days when the idea of accessorizing feels like just one more thing on the never-ending to-do list.
I’ve spent many mornings in leggings and a messy bun, barely finding time to brush my hair before tackling the day. And you know what? That’s perfectly okay. But what I’ve realized over time is that on the days I don’t feel like putting on jewelry, those are the days I need it most.
Jewelry as Self-Care
As moms, we give so much of ourselves to our families. It’s easy to lose sight of the little things that make us feel good in our own skin. For me, jewelry is a small yet significant way to reclaim a bit of my identity. When I slip on a pair of earrings or stack a few rings, it’s like a gentle reminder: I’m more than just the role I play as a mom. I’m a woman with dreams, creativity, and style.
Some days, it’s not about looking polished for anyone else. It’s about feeling a little more put together for myself. Even a delicate necklace or a simple band can make me feel ready to take on the day, no matter how chaotic it might get.
Rediscovering Joy in Your Jewelry Box
If you’re like me, you probably have pieces tucked away that you’ve forgotten about. A sentimental necklace, a ring you bought to celebrate a milestone, or a pair of earrings you splurged on because they made you feel beautiful. These pieces tell your story. They’re not just accessories; they’re a part of who you are.
On the days when you’re not feeling it, take a moment to rediscover your jewelry box. Choose one piece that makes you smile and wear it — not for anyone else, but for you. Let it serve as a reminder that you deserve to feel good, even in the midst of motherhood’s beautiful chaos.
Permission to Be Yourself
It’s easy to feel like you have to be everything to everyone. But the truth is, you don’t have to show up perfectly every day. Give yourself permission to be exactly where you are, whether that means embracing a no-jewelry day or reaching for your favorite pair of hoops to add an elevated, casual piece to your routine.
Jewelry doesn’t define us, but it can empower us. It’s a way to express ourselves, to feel confident, and to celebrate the unique and beautiful lives we’re living. So, to all the moms out there who might be feeling a little “meh” about accessorizing today: I see you. I’ve been there. And when you’re ready, your jewelry box will be waiting to remind you just how amazing you are.
What’s in Your Jewelry Box?
I’d love to hear from you. What’s your go-to piece of jewelry when you want to feel like yourself again? Or maybe you have a story about a special piece that’s meaningful to you. Let’s share and celebrate those moments — because even on the hardest days, we deserve to look good and feel good.
xo, sheena
